I wonder if part of the issue is there’s a part of your consciousness that believes having an orgasm will feel too emotionally intense for you, especially these days when many of us are doing lots of extra mental gymnastics to not feel emotionally overwhelmed.įirst I would say: it’s totally okay to have an orgasm and feel whatever you feel afterward. It’s also very normal to tear up or cry (or laugh, or feel all sorts of unexpected emotions) after an orgasm. Sometimes these fluctuations are more noticeable than others, and they are particularly noticeable during times in our lives when intense and drastic changes could be taking place - like a pandemic, for example. Pitagora: Fluctuations in desire and libido are common and normal. Why? I've never orgasmed with another person.' -Anonymous Also, in the last few sessions, I've teared up afterward, why is that? I love having my clitoris stimulated but then it gets too much where I don't want to orgasm.
What causes this? I used to masturbate more but now that barely occurs - and that's also more tension release than anything else. 'Before the pandemic, I was more sexual, and now I barely have any desire.